Being Out of Touch.....Or, In?

Sometimes men and women need to get their mouths, tongues, and touch in sync before judging and ending something that hasn’t really yet begun. Whether at first base or home plate, not everyone is on the same level in the beginning. Sometimes men and women are nervous and clam up because they think they’re being judged. They may truly like and be attracted to the person, but for undisclosed reasons, aren’t putting forth their best moves or just need to be helped along. If a guy or girl hasn’t experienced being with a great kisser, and I’ve kissed certain guys who were hot but kissing wasn’t their strong suit, often they can be taught. Bad kissing is like saying a guy can’t make you cum…it’s easy to make a man cum…but many women either fake their organisms, or if taught well, will have them every time they have sex.
Men, know this FACT: There is nothing worse than going down on a woman and being ROUGH…it’s a complete turn off! It’s like a woman who uses her teeth when giving head--nothing hurts you more!

Being that I did fully understand what Brea meant, and having a few first kisses weaker than a bad cup of coffee, we shouldn’t go judging from just one kiss. After all, you’ve probably experienced a great kiss and never heard from this person again. Just because it was a great kiss doesn’t mean you’re going to walk down the aisle with him or her or let alone get that call the next day. Why though, if a first kiss is bad, or first time sex sucks, often we’ll think it can’t get better? Sometimes the good kisser and great sex doesn’t turn out to be a well-suited partner. Just maybe that bad kisser or guy that came too quick and couldn’t get you “off,” if coached, could turn out to be better than you could have ever imagined!

For some, judging on first impressions and giving someone a fair chance isn’t easy. Many men and women are too quick to judge. This really isn’t fair. Shouldn’t we try giving people the benefit of the doubt, and if liked, get to know them before making our analysis? Just like people change, looks change, professions and finances change, many times that bad kisser, if given a chance an opportunity, could turn out better than ever. I hate to break it to everyone, but good sex can often wear off, and a shitty kisser CAN get better….trust me on this…I’ve been there on every level!