Admitting the Truth

We’ve heard many times people say, “women marry older men for money, and younger men often date and marry older women for sex.” Are older men just clueless, and just seeking a woman who is great in the sack who will take care of their sexual needs? Some men often date women who are such bitches and gold diggers that it’s questionable if it’s just an arranged partnership where she has unlimited shopping and credit card usage, and his reward is getting constant sex whenever he wants! Its crazy how many men and women are just blatantly being used and just don’t care. But then we’ll often see the young men who are just using that older woman for great sex. But because of their age of player mode their in, won’t realize that this older, energetic and hot woman may be perfect for them. The problem is when the men get older and in later years when all they have to look at is there bank accounts with a ton of money, they’ll look back while lonely and single and realize that the one great woman is the one they were too stupid to snag up! And often because of sexual needs they end up settling with that “gold digger!” Why can’t singles see that age isn’t the problem and society now welcomes older women dating younger men? And, that the underlining problem with many singles is really, communicating and committing. For some men and women communication and commitment comes naturally, but for others it is WAY more difficult. Why?

Holding feelings in, rarely expressing oneself, and pulling back instead of just going with the flow, when in relationships most will agree is an unhealthy way to live. Most often the things people didn’t address, or confront in younger years will often end up surfacing and coming out in one way or another in later years. When looking back one may have been scared of the hearing the truth or being disappointed, so for whatever reasons they held back. We all know that if you don’t ask, you may always wonder. Is wondering such a good thing? Most of us know that the majority of the time the truth has a weird way of coming out. But, for many it’s just all a game…for others, it’s being scared…and for some, it’s the adrenaline rush of the unknown. What most people don’t want to see and realize is that the unknown is really the truth. However, for whatever reasons many men and women are too afraid to admit or say what that truth really is. It’s so frustrating that so many men and women don’t speak the truth. Men seem to have no issues in directing and telling a woman how they like their pecker caressed and sucked, so why are so many women fearful of telling, (or showing), a guy how to be better? Too often many women and men aren’t honest with how they feel and will hold back from saying what’s really on their mind. Why is this? Why do so many men and women drag out relationships when they deep down know the inevitable? The Maven’s suggestion is to speak the truth no matter how bad it is. Lies always come out! It’s always better to hear the truth directly from the guilty person no matter how bad it is.