Sunday, April 29, 2007

Short, Fat, and Balding......Yuck!

Since the style of dating today is by a pic, and a click, you’d sincerely hope that all single men and women would be sincere, not write lies with fabricated stories, or post ancient or old pictures. You’d expect from reading someone’s profile that they would be truthful and honest about who they are. However unfortunately, with many online profiles this is NOT the case!

From thousands of received emails from men, most of which I usually do reply to, curious to see if they're in the market to buy a condo/coop, (my other career), and also to see if they're full of shit or portraying the truth in their profiles, I'll click reply and hit send!

Since many men have validated my profile as being real, and letting me know they think my profile is unique, and one of a kind, (which it is), it’s SO upsetting to discover how many men LIE on their profiles. The lies and exaggerations are so astounding, from stretching the truth about oneself, to lying about their height, air brushing their photos to shed and shrink the extra pounds, to some men wearing a hat to cover their baldness. The fabrications on even their backgrounds never cease to amaze me. Also, some will go so far to BS about their career, where they are from, and what religion they are. Don’t single men and women understand that looks, personality, and telling the TRUTH all matters? Is starting a friendship/or relationship out on lies really the route we should be taking?

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

hmmm...this is an one fact that will never change...Men will do anything to get some heavy petting....most men are secure enough to not have to lie...but then many are not secure so they have to do what ever it takes to get the date and eventuall a night of sex..nothing new here..I could name a few ladies that are the same....this is nto a onesided issue.

Dating Maven said...

The girls you go out with, do u get action and satisfaction on date #1? And, if you don't will you take them out again? Being it's apparent/obvious u 2 are hot for each other.